Are there any ladies who are not annoying？ What does she look like？

Original Su Yibai S Miss Lan and Miss Huang

A lady has never been a pleasant existence in life.

Eva Huang, as one of the real ladies, appeared in a huge dress, and one person occupied three seats, so that people could wait on her anytime and anywhere and do whatever they wanted. Everyone should make way for me, which made the audience dumbfounded.

▲ For example, I took Meng Jia’s resignation as a matter of course, and I didn’t show any sign of Meng Jia helping her with her dress (at least not at all in the program broadcast, not even simply saying "thank you" later, so I was too busy talking to Yuqi Zhang next to me).

▲ Because the huge princess dress was too tight, she volunteered to adjust the order of appearance with Lyric, and picked up Meng Jia’s coffee and drank it directly before playing. Still, there was no thank you. Seeing Meng Jia carefully holding the coffee cup, her brain made up an inner drama.

▲ Gina silently helped her change her shoes, but she still turned a blind eye and didn’t thank her all the time.

During the whole program, Eva Huang regarded herself as a princess and a wealthy housewife, and even felt that it was natural for other female stars to take care of her and listen to her. Her words and deeds naturally attracted the audience’s dissatisfaction.

But are all ladies like this? Arrogant, conceited, arrogant and self-centered?

Of course not.

In fact, there are also annoying ladies. Today, we will talk about a lady who is almost uniformly praised. Although some people will say that her wealth is not comparable to that of Eva Huang, she is rich and talented and can be liked, which is a skill in itself.

People who often watch Kangxi Comes must know her. Her name is Melody (stage name: Yin Yue).

▲ The real name Liu Gongxian was nicknamed "Liu Hard Gun" by Xiao S.

She has a more impressive identity, Tao Zhe’s ex-girlfriend and the heroine of Tao Zhe’s masterpiece Melody.

▲ This was admitted by Tao Zhe himself in an interview in 2003. In the song, the phrase "I didn’t know how to cherish until I lost it" expressed the sadness of separation, and he also personally mentioned in the MV the regret that the good old days were hard to reproduce after all.

▲ Although Melody clarified in Kangxi many years later that this song was called Sara Lee (a cake brand) during the demo period, it was not a single specially written for her to some extent, but in the end, it was named after her, which is another kind of infatuation.

▲ This kind of "clean-up" is regarded by Tao Zhe fans as "turning your face and denying people". After all, her early fame in the entertainment industry largely came from the addition of this song. Looking back at her visit to Kangxi in early 2005, she was not shy about it.

But after all, this affair has long been a thing of the past, and both sides have their own families, so it is the best choice to forget about the rivers and lakes.

The two had been dating for six years, almost from Melody’s 18 to 23, and she was the first open girlfriend since Tao Zhe debuted.

▲ She never responded positively to the reason why the two broke up. She only said that she did not commit evil. At first glance, such a pretentious move is very disobedient, but people who are used to watching her show say that this is her, drama queen.

Melody, born in the United States in 1979, is a standard ABC, so her ABC accent has also become a personal feature.

▲ When she was a child (pictured right), she looked exactly like her mother.

▲ My parents gave birth to three daughters and a son. She is the eldest in the family, and she should take the initiative to help her younger brothers and sisters.

▲ Like all traditional Chinese families, although parents are strict in discipline, they love their children.

▲ She graduated from UCLA Department of International Social and Political Science, and then participated in the Miss Chinatown Beauty Contest in California in 1999, winning the championship in one fell swoop.

▲ I can still find her name on official website.

▲ This coronation photo is definitely a black history. In fact, her eyes were really not that small at that time.

▲ It is almost as big as this picture, because the fleshy baby face at that time made the eyes smaller.

▲ Her little sister (pictured) also took part in the same competition a few years later, but unfortunately she did not enter the top three.

Melody had already started her acting career in Taiwan Province at that time.

She called this a dream-chasing when she was young. After all, after graduating from a prestigious school, she had a good job opportunity in the United States, but she decided to come back for her dream.

▲ In 2003, Huang Shujun released her first and only album Melody of Love.

▲ Among them, I also collaborated with Fan Yichen on a song "Love in the Adriatic Sea".

▲ Tao Zhe, an ex-boyfriend at the release site, also sent a large basket of flowers and handwritten cards, which triggered a heated discussion in the media.

In those years, Melody’s name was always associated with Tao Zhe, until she played Tian Xin, an English teacher with lovely white eyes in ultimate class in 2005, and then she went to lightning to get married.

▲ In early 2006, she married her husband, Wu Yuqi, who had only known him for half a year.

▲ The two were engaged in Los Angeles and married in Bali, with a diamond ring of 4.8 carats.

▲ Because of the low profile, few wedding photos can be found, and her husband is older than her. There is a 15-year gap between them.

▲ The introducer of the two is Wu Yuqi’s sister Wu Yumei (pictured left), and she is also a famous Kuantai in the city.

▲ Wu Yumei married Xue Zhiwei (pictured left), a wealthy Jewish businessman who came to Taiwan Province for development in his early years. The business of trading companies started by his family was distributed in Southeast Asia, Europe and America.

▲ Wu Yumei, as a lady, attended major events with exaggerated hairstyles and Hermes with special leather, and stood next to her beautiful mixed-race children.

▲ This is Wu Yumei and her mother Wu Baoqin (left), Melody’s mother-in-law. Does the whole family look expensive?

▲ However, in 2013, Wu Yumei died of illness. Four years later, Xue Zhiwei gave up her baldness and shaved her head and married actress Na Tang.

▲ At the wedding scene, Melody stepped on Roger Vivier pearl shoes, holding Bvlgari snakehead bag, and joined hands with her husband to congratulate her ex-brother-in-law, which shows that the two families have a good relationship.

▲ As for rumors on the Internet, Melody’s husband made a fortune by this brother-in-law, and some netizens came forward to refute it, but the language was unclear. Maybe people are really low-key.

In fact, Melody’s own family background is not bad after all.

▲ Graduated from a prestigious school with a double degree, clean family and simple love history.

▲ As the parents of the first generation of immigrants, they have strict standards for their children’s mate selection.

She once mentioned her grandmother’s story in an interview, which was a standard plot of touch of green.

▲ In the 1940s, a rich young lady in Shanghai chose to drift to Taiwan Province in order to be the grandfather of the Air Force and give up everything arranged at home. She lived in a village where the conditions were not as good as before and gave birth to two children. Unexpectedly, just three years after marriage, her husband died in a plane crash. (Source: Weibo @Melody Yin Yue)

▲ The young widowed grandmother didn’t feel depressed because of this. She tried to find a job to bring up her children. She didn’t remarry until the children became adults, immigrated to the United States with her family and enjoyed a new life.

▲ Now grandma is over 90 years old, even if her temples are gray, it is difficult to hide her extravagance. Often living in LA, when she returns to Taiwan Province, she will still go to the Air Force Martyrs Cemetery to see her former lover and present a bunch of flowers to show her homesickness.

No matter what the net worth is in the eyes of outsiders, Melody is definitely living a lady’s life.

▲ The balcony at home faces the mountain and you can see the complete Taipei landmark 101 building.

▲ When going out, there is a helper who is responsible for taking care of the children.

▲ Her standard jewelry is Cartier three-ring diamond ring and large row of diamond fingers, as well as Cartier tiger head ring, large diamond earrings, Cartier full-diamond love bracelet, Hermes watch and bracelet, etc.

She has all kinds of Hermes bags, from entry-level models to crocodile skins.

▲ Whether traveling, videotaping, picking up and dropping off children, participating in activities or taking random street shots, different Hermes bags can always find a suitable way to match.

Melody is 1.7 meters tall, but her head is not particularly small, so sometimes a bad match can easily lead to top-heavy disasters.

▲ For example, in these two pictures, in addition to the shooting angle of the overhead shot, this long coat on the right (or Hermes! To some extent, it shortens the length of the legs, which makes the whole person’s visual proportion strange.

Therefore, how to make the best use of the height advantage and wear it with strengths and weaknesses is the most important thing.

▲ It can be seen that she doesn’t like to wear skirts and high heels except for participating in activities. If you want to wear flat shoes with long skirts, you must choose one that can expose your legs to extend the proportion, otherwise you will wear high heels like the picture below.

▲ Like the picture on the left, flat shoes are pencil skirt’s, which still limits the exertion of legs and makes the whole person look "five-five-body". You should choose high-waist pants to extend the visual length of legs. The simplest white items can also be reused to create new patterns. The same white shirt with skirt is full of femininity, while with fluorescent green wide-leg pants, it is even more ridiculous.

▲ Melody prefers nude colors, which can be worn from spring and summer to autumn and winter. Simply wear black and white colors or jeans. easy chic, brand-name bags are the finishing touch but not the only essential element.

▲ Her style is changeable, and she can be superimposed with a big name, and the lady is full of style.

▲ You can also walk the world simply by zara and H&M.

Melody really loves all kinds of oversize coats and brings them directly to shawls, creating a tough and handsome professional atmosphere, and making the overall shape flexible and not monotonous.

▲ Of course, you can occasionally change your hairstyle and comb two messy and fluffy braided hair to achieve the effect of age reduction.

In fact, I think what she is most suitable for is simple and uncomplicated wearing, which seems to be relaxed and casual, but all of them show their personality in details, not simply adding hard and concave brand names, but fully opening the gas field through matching.

Although she can be called a veritable lady, and all her friends around her are also divinatory, Melody is still very real.

▲ Even in the face of praise, she only modestly said that she had an old face, although the Chanel coat and Hermes bracelet on her body were shouting "It’s really expensive".

▲ She joked that she is a "prostitute" who walks around the market and has to serve her husband, children and dogs.

▲ As long as there is a program where she appears, the ratings will not be bad. Everyone loves her drama, loves her "drama" and "affectation", and nine out of ten comments praise her.

Although she is a lady, the reason why people don’t hate her is because she lives truly enough.

It is a fact that a lady is rich, so she never pretends to be very low-key. In all kinds of ways, she admits her femininity and goes to work, only to give up after a day in a restaurant.

▲ Just because the restaurant manager called her to wash the toilet, this sentence has simply become a voice bag that often watches Kangxi audiences.

▲ She is so popular with the audience. A few words of ABC accent English blurted out are not offensive, but add comedy effect.

▲ The speech is organized, the story is vivid, and the hair is full of American style, which is frank and lovely in her body.

▲ Coupled with echo each other’s reaction, the whole entertainment effect was bursting.

▲ Kang Yong and S commented on her as "expensive" and "naturally annoying", and she accepted it calmly.

She never denied the difficulties and pressures she encountered during pregnancy after marriage.

▲ For nearly four years, Melody didn’t appear in front of the screen but tried to get pregnant, not only because of her husband’s expectations, but also because of her own expectations of being a mother. So that later she wrote a book about her child-seeking experience, and shared it with female friends who had the same troubles, encouraging everyone to relax.

▲ Even if "no one cares about the second child", it is also a spoiled program effect.

▲ She performed the picture that she was awakened by snoring during pregnancy without taboo, which was grounded and lovely.

Because she lives truly, unlike some ladies, she has no sense of security and is full of lies. She gives the impression that she is not a housewife without freedom, and she also has absolutely more time and space after taking care of her family at work.

▲ You can play crazy with like-minded friends.

▲ As for the trivial matters in the daily family, she frankly relies on mommy’s juice to relax and relieve troubles.

As for her husband, she never showed any intention to please or flaunt that she has the upper hand in the marriage relationship.

▲ She will complain exaggeratedly about her husband’s difficulty.

▲ It will also be ridiculous by his so-called "don’t lie" expression.

▲ Of course, there are embarrassing scenes that occasionally drive her crazy, and she never avoids mentioning it. It is an interesting talk about married life.

Regardless of whether these programs are effective or not, at least we can see that the relationship between husband and wife is equal and comfortable, and there is no sense of oppression or desperately trying to prove their powerlessness.

As a fan who used to watch her Facebook live broadcast in the past, for a time, her husband volunteered to act as a humanoid handheld frame. Even if he didn’t tremble all the time, he would insist on accompanying his wife to shoot the live broadcast without complaint. It was really sweet enough.

Second, she is not a puppet at the mercy of others, nor is she a little woman who breathes with admiration. On the contrary, she has her own personal life control and opinion, and she is the top leader inside and outside, and she is capable of convincing people.

▲ You can take a look at her daily schedule, which is full, busy and orderly.

▲ Insist on exercise, never relax your requirements, and maintain almost the same weight all year round.

▲ Before, she challenged herself to take over the location program Mamma Mia, and partnered with Li Yongxian. Although she was afraid of the sun and water, she also achieved good ratings.

▲ Now, even if there are not many announcements, she will regularly update the radio program "Sister Whispers" in the oil pipeline every week.

She is a person who can’t stop and doesn’t want to stop. It is her life creed to keep pushing herself forward.

▲ From 2012 to 2018, she published five books. Of course, I haven’t bought any books, and I’m not sure what the gold content of Taiwan Province’s title of "best-selling author" is. But from an ABC who doesn’t know Chinese to being able to write one book after another, doesn’t it just prove Melody’s process of self-improvement?

▲ In addition to her work, she also has to pick up and drop off her children for piano lessons and stare at their homework.

▲ Education follows family rules, strict discipline, and clear rewards and punishments for children.

▲ Her husband praised her for doing things resolutely, coordinating internal affairs and foreign affairs, and paying attention to "quick and accurate". Look at her expression, it is really a drama queen that is always done in life.

The third is to be honest about the imperfections of life and learn to accept and let go.

▲ No matter how perfect a life is, it has its own troubles. With the appearance of the child, the comments on the child’s appearance often make her feel lost (see if her eldest daughter looks like Melody’s old photos when she was a child, and the ladies are exactly the same).

▲ For some unfriendly voices, Melody didn’t answer back, but wrote a long speech in ins to share his psychological process with you.

▲ My youngest daughter was found to be born with severe myopia (near amblyopia) at the age of three, which once made her exhausted and blamed herself. Fortunately, it was discovered in time, but the subsequent worries were never less than a fraction.

So you see, how difficult it is for a woman to be a daughter, a wife and a mother. All identities should be balanced, and physical strength, brain power and intelligence should be tested in all directions.

▲ Every woman should be her own lady in life and be better to herself.

Fourth, being a lady is not a shopkeeper, but the CEO of a family. It requires people with high emotional intelligence, love and tolerance to complete this complicated work.

Husband is rich, you are a lady, but a lady is not a life of shopping and doing nothing every day.

A lady is a more demanding and complicated life, which requires the victim to understand the lifestyle and code of conduct of another class.

First of all, it’s not to show off one’s wealth, not to tell others what to do. This superficial behavior is the taboo of the industry of ladies. First, it’s rude, and second, it’s lack of style, which is the taboo of many old money families.

Melody is different from those ladies who deliberately show off and wait for others to praise. Melody is more willing to share the sincere feelings between her and her family.

▲ Eat with grandma and grandma.

▲ Take a set of family happiness with mom and dad and the whole family.

▲ No matter how you complain about your husband on the show for the effect, remember to always express your love for your husband.

▲ She said that she is not being stupid but really stupid, but she actually has a super emotional intelligence.

▲ "She has a clear understanding and self-definition of life." (Source: Tubing @ Mrs. Science)

Yes, there are unattractive ladies in this world. Apart from their rich husbands, the greatest feature of these ladies is that they know life very well, know themselves very well, make progress all the time and enjoy their lives.

▲ Melody’s plain state, which is 41 years old, is enough to prove that her happiness in these years is real.

I think this passage deserves everyone’s memory: "You don’t know what will happen tomorrow, but you must listen to your own voice and treat people around you sincerely in the process, so that you can find new inspiration. This is the real purpose of life."

Know how to love yourself, know how to live, manage your life in an orderly way, live truly, and cherish every moment in your life. Whether you are a lady or not, you are quite lovable people.

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Original title: "fame and fortune || Is there an annoying lady? What does she look like? 》

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