Danging and standing again! Abandoning his 14-year first love and choosing a second marriage, he has been divorced for 9 years. Chen He can’t hide his thoughts anymore

From "scum" to "good dad": is time the best medicine, or is it a double standard for the masses?

After the divorce, Chen He’s career was not greatly affected. Instead, he won the love of some viewers again with his true and unpretentious character in the variety show. After he married Zhang Zixuan and had a daughter, he frequently shared bits and pieces of family life on social media, creating a "good father" image of the family who loves children.

The former "scum" seems to have been whitewashed by time, and the public’s evaluation of him has gradually become tolerant. Is this change time the best medicine, or is the public’s double standard for men and women? If Chen He were replaced by a female public figure, would he still get the same tolerance and understanding?

III. From "judge" to "bystander": Do we have the right to judge the emotional lives of public figures?

In the Internet age, everyone can become a publisher and disseminator of information, and the private lives of public figures have become the talk of the public after dinner. We are eager to comment on their emotional lives, as if we were turning into moral judges. What we see are only fragments processed and rendered by the media, and we often have no idea of the whole picture and the truth of the event.

Rather than judging others from the moral high ground, it is better to choose to be a rational bystander. The emotional lives of public figures are their private affairs, and we have no right to interfere, let alone over-interpret and consume.

Chen He’s ten-year transformation is a social phenomenon worthy of our reflection. In the era of information explosion, we should maintain the ability to think rationally and independently, not be coerced by public opinion, and not easily judge others. Everyone has the right to choose their own way of life, and we should respect their choices and be responsible for their words and deeds.

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